DEAR HARRIETTE: Recently, I went to a high-end store wearing a simple dress, and I noticed that the sales lady did not seem eager to assist me. Despite politely requesting help, I was largely ignored while other customers who were dressed in more extravagant clothing were approached immediately. This experience made me feel like I was being judged based on my appearance rather than being treated equally as a customer. It felt like a clear display of inequality and discrimination. It is not fair to prioritize certain customers over others based on their appearance. -- Not Fair Treatment
DEAR NOT FAIR TREATMENT: I learned years ago not to do business with people who do not respect me. So, for starters, you should not shop at that store anymore. But that’s not enough. That salesperson needs to be made aware of the impact of her bad behavior. I recommend that you speak to the manager of the store and lodge a formal complaint. Be brave and share exactly what happened and how it made you feel. Salespeople are supposed to be attentive to all customers. This woman should be reprimanded for her discriminatory behavior. This is your “Pretty Woman” moment -- take it.