DEAR SOMEONE ELSE’S MOM: This week has been rather interesting for me. I work in a medium-sized hotel and get along with everyone very well.
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I recently made a bet with a friend on March Madness basketball because both my team and my friend’s team were playing one another in the tournament. The loser of the bet had to enter a bikini contest at a local bar, which is something neither of us would normally do but we both felt our teams would win and we had a few beers before making the bet, plus a lot of other friends encouraged our bad behavior in the moment.
Well my team lost, so I had to do the bikini contest. As part of the bet my friend got to choose my bikini and she chose a cheetah print thong bikini to my horror. In my best effort to make light of the situation I entered the contest.
After the contest, in which I placed third, I went back to the table some of my friends were at, but on the way back I came face-to-face with the entire upper management team at the hotel I work for! They were all laughing in a nice way and told me I looked great! Thankfully they are all women and they didn’t have any problem with the skimpiness of my bikini. But they have been teasing me ever since in a nice way.
Unfortunately for me though, word has spread around the hotel and some friends I work with tell me everyone at the hotel has been talking about me and calling me “The Cheetah” behind my back. Nobody thinks poorly of me or anything like that, but I can’t help but be a bit embarrassed by this whole thing and the attention I’m getting!
The bar posted pictures of the contest on Instagram and the one of me has gotten quite a few likes from some of my friends who work at the hotel, so I figure most people have seen the pictures.
Is this embarrassed feeling I have legitimate? Will it ever go away? Maybe I’m just taking everything too seriously as my friends tell me and it is not a big deal. I did have fun that night so maybe I’m just crazy, or maybe I need a new job? --- EXPOSED AT WORK
DEAR EXPOSED AT WORK: I can understand how the situation’s a bit awkward, but I don’t see any reason your decision to make good on your bet is anything to feel embarrassed about. Nor do I believe you need to hit the job market because of it.
From what you wrote it sounds as if your adventures in a bikini are being treated in a good spirit by most of your coworkers and the management team.
As for the people who are calling you “The Cheetah” behind your back, unless you have reason to believe their intent is malicious, there’s a good chance that they’re just playing into your new-found fame. And, as with most fame it’ll probably be fleeting and your coworkers will soon enough move onto something else they find amusing.
Hopefully, for you it’ll eventually become a fun and funny memory ‒ and a good reminder to perhaps make more careful wagers in the future.