Countless young American families are facing severe housing challenges. One obvious factor is affordability. Another is that many older homeowners are hanging onto property they’ve refinanced to a low-rate mortgage during the pandemic, leading to property shortages.
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But despite the so-called lock-in effect, life circumstances are gradually forcing more owners to let go of their home.
“Homeowners hate to give up their 2% to 3% mortgage rate, but life happens, and people have to move,” says David Palmer, a Redfin real estate agent in Seattle. He says many people are moving because a major life event like a job change or divorce has given them no other choice.
But it’s not enough for homeowners to simply decide to sell. In most cases, they must also prepare their property for public showings. And one key barrier to that process can involve the often agonizing chore of decluttering.
Sellers who prune their accumulations fare better than those who fail to remove superfluous items prior to selling, says Vicki Norris, who heads her own professional organizing firm.
“People want to picture themselves living in your place, and they can’t do that if it’s crowded with all your stuff,” says Norris, author of “Restoring Order to Your Home.”
Would-be sellers are not only advised to streamline their possessions; they should also reduce the inflow into their homes until they receive a solid contract for sale. And that means less shopping.
Many people use shopping as a form of entertainment or as a mood lifter when they’re feeling down, says Barbara Hemphill, author of “Less Clutter More Life” and other related books.
“People often shop to ignore or cover up emotional pain, though this is only a momentary fix,” Hemphill says.
For prospective home sellers, particularly those who must liquidate for financial reasons, spending time hunting through stores for the perfect addition to an already large collection of designer shoes, for example, is self-defeating behavior.
Ironically, many people begin an anti-clutter campaign with a shopping spree involving the purchase of numerous storage containers. But all those big plastic bins prove more of a hindrance than a help, states Hemphill, who began her career in professional organizing in 1978.
“What’s inevitable is that those containers will just get in your way,” she says.
Judith Rough, an expert in helping seniors downsize, strongly recommends that sellers halt all but the most essential shopping until they’ve concluded their move.
“Before you start acquiring new items, you need to measure your new space and see what will fit,” she says.
Here are a few pointers for sellers:
-- Seek outside help for major projects.
Rough estimates that to fully declutter an average-sized house usually takes at least four weeks of concentrated effort and often outside help.
“Going through everything you’ve acquired for decades is extremely emotional -- particularly if you’ve raised your family in that house,” Rough says.
To gain forward movement, sellers often turn to relatives. But Rough says you’re better off with an objective third party -- ideally a professional organizer. One source for referrals is the real estate agent who will list your property. Another is the National Association of Productivity & Organizing Professionals (napo.net).
Regrettably, many sellers can’t afford the cost of a professional organizer for numerous hours of assistance. If this is true for you, Rough suggests you limit the organizer’s help to just a few hours of planning time. Then also pay the person for a few one-hour “check-ins” on a weekly basis, during which you’ll receive a “homework” assignment for the following week.
-- Ask loved ones what items they wish to keep.
Are you the parent of grown children? If so, Rough says you may be tempted to hang onto nostalgic possessions you believe your offspring may someday want to claim. But as Rough says, “Your kids will want far less of your stuff than you expect.” So she suggests you ask them directly what they want.
-- Take photos of items you can’t keep.
Before seeking to declutter, Hemphill often recommends that sellers take photographs of entire rooms to create compact memories of these spaces. She also advises taking pictures of valued items, such as a grand piano, that are too large to bring to the next property.
“Converting prized belongings to art is a great way to hasten the clearing process and make your house more saleable,” she says.
In addition to taking photos, Hemphill recommends you keep a small box of special items
Those who convert precious items into art or photographs often find the transition to their new environment to be emotionally easier, Hemphill says.
-- Safeguard valuable documents and keepsakes.
To safeguard such non-disposable items as passports, birth certificates and diplomas, Rough suggests you encase them in clear plastic sheet protectors and place them in a three-ring binder. Alternatively, you may wish to buy a storage item designed for vital records.
-- Locate a new home for your discards.
In sifting through your accumulations, you’re bound to find many things you no longer want.
Whenever possible, Rough encourages you to donate serviceable items to a reputable charity. Through the years, for example, she’s donated many of her own discards through church groups.
Another option is to post your giveaways through your Facebook account, which could result in finding a friend, relative or acquaintance who would appreciate receiving them.
“Maybe there’s a young family you know who could use your extra furniture because they’re setting up a new household. It’s hugely satisfying to know that things you paid good money for will find the right home,” Rough says. (To contact Ellen James Martin, email her at ellenjamesmartin@gmail.com.)