DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m feeling a little hurt right now, and I’m hoping some wise words might help me put things into perspective.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m writing to you after having just ended another relationship, and I keep getting the same feedback from women I date: that I’m too intense, too argumentative and dismissive and ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m not exactly sure what term to use for myself. Broke off my last relationship because it was toxic almost 12 years ago.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been pursuing a woman, she’s Georgian, for a few months who I’ve gone to university with. I can tell she really likes me due to her obvious body language and since I’ve become... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Sorry for the long letter and if the English is not the great since it is not my mother tongue.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: As a man who’s still figuring out dating and has been played before, what are the signs someone is just using you for free stuff? Not only that but when is someone being dishonest ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I could use your help figuring out if I’m the a--hole or if my friend is overreacting and I don’t know if I trust Reddit to give me a good answer. ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So navigating the swamp pit that is modern is because all the chaos and contradictions especially as autistic virgin in his late 20s. From being told to women are the happiest when... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My wife has a “work husband”, a co-worker she has a close and emotionally intimate friendship with. I normally wouldn’t be bothered, but I feel like it’s starting to cross lines th... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I saw your “Flurry of dating advice” post on Google, and one guy said pretty awkwardly that he was into Asian goth girls because he associates paleness with Japanese horror.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Allow me to start with the caveat that I have had some relationships in the past (2, one of 2 months and one of 3 months), those were at this point more then 15 years ago... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I finally woke up out of dreamland a year ago mortified with the fact that, at the ripe old age of 21, that I am still a kissless virgin and haven’t been in a relationship with a g... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m an almost 39-year-old single straight white male. I was a late bloomer and never even kissed a girl until I was 22. Got my first “girlfriend” and lost the v-card at 24. After t... more