DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I feel like I have a fundamental misunderstanding of how human relationships work, and it’s making it difficult for me to connect with others, whether romantically or platonically.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I feel like I’m sliding towards too cynical about many things these days. I don’t want the same approach with my dating and friendship life. I’m a cisgender, straight, monogamous m... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (cis/het male, 33 years old) recently met a wonderful woman on Hinge. I took her for dinner and dancing, and we had a fantastic time. She never danced before, and I led her for t... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m impressed with the amount of nuance and content you can get from even the most anxious and overthinky emails. Today though, I need your help with something: how do I let someon... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been an enormous fan of yours for a while. From my perspective, your works (online dating books in particular) make it easier to navigate the material barriers to say the tech... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve finally done it I’ve lost my virginity at the ripe old age of 26 and well turns out the feelings of inadequacy haven’t really gone away if anything new one started reappearing... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Yes, It has happened again.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I need dating advice help for a boy in my kid’s friends’ group. He’s in 9th grade, a little neurodivergent, and has trouble reading social signs. He keeps crushing on 10th graders ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Your stuff on leaving an incel mindset has been extremely helpful for me! I just need to get out there…... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m in my early 20s, single, male, had less than a handful of dates in my life and I have a question: just where is a man supposed to meet women? ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m an autistic 27 year old virgin university dropout (Years ago by this time) that worked a string of crappy jobs, with my most recent being not-so-crappy, so an advancement.��I w... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So I’m 21 years old. I’m apparently not sane person. I have autism, ATH, borderline mania, borderline depression and personality disorder.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have a bit of an odd question; I want to share a situation and get a third party perspective on it too see if there were red flags or if I was just being a little too jaded. ... more