DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Many years ago, I was very unexperienced in the ways of dating. I found your column and your advice helped me through when a guy at work asked me out. You helped me getting used to... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 47 years old. I left my sexless marriage ten years ago. I fully expected to have a rich sex life post marriage. I did not. The last time I had sex was years ago and that was an... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m sure this is familiar territory for you and many others, but here we go. I don’t know what I want out of my relationship. I suspect I never really have in past relationships ei... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am 15 female, and I am going through indirect rejection.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I know dating struggles are your bread and butter, but I guess I big blind spot you seem to have is frankly women and men having pretty much completely different struggles in the d... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So I used to be friends with this guy two years ago. We weren’t super close, but we were still friends. A year later, we didn’t have any classes together and sort of fell apart. ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve read articles where one person or the other in a relationship has lost their interest in sex, but what happens when it’s both of you?... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m not sure exactly what this is meant to be. Seeking advice, ranting/venting. But I’ve just got some stuff that I need to say to someone, and it feels too embarrassing to talk to... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 35-year-old woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years, together for 12. My husband and I have always had a good sex life, but it’s always been very standard, and, if I’m hon... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I was interested on a coworker (26F) but it was hard to communicate with her: if we were alone, she would ignore me and if I started a conversation, she would talk, but in a nonch... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve stumbled upon your blog and account every now and then. I always end up reading at least one of your posts, sometimes more. Never as a subscriber though because some of this ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This is really only somewhat related to dating but I hope you can help me anyway. I’m a recent college graduate, new resident in a large midwestern city and I just turned 25 and I... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I just wanted to let you know that I enjoy your articles and your perspective regarding dating. You are probably one of the only people I bother reading on the internet these days... more