DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I wanted to ask… as a female that happens to be a geek how do I approach new male friendships? I try to be a social person and venture out-or even through friends of my friends on r... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Longtime reader here, first time writer and not a native English speaker so please excuse any mistakes. You sometimes tackle the topic of friendships instead of romantic love so I w... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve got this ex, and we’re friends. We’re exes because the stars didn’t align for us, and that’s it. We’ve been close for ten years, on and off, and I really love her. We’ll call h... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: It occurs to me to write for your input because of both of your interests as a nerd and a (former) PUA. For many, those two interests don’t go hand-in-hand, yet you seem to have fou... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: You could very well say that I (21m straight) am in a bit of a friendship problem type situation. I find myself to be incredibly physically (but not romantically) attracted to my be... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been talking to this girl I met online for almost a year now, let’s call her W.  I wasn’t actually looking for a relationship in the first place, since we can’t go out and meet... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a long time reader and I was hoping you could lend your expert advice on a issue I’ve been having for sometime.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have had a few friends since high school. We remained friends even after we graduated, went to different colleges, lived over an hour apart, after I moved out of state, but now I’... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I wanted to write to you because I wanted your advice on a situation that’s been bothering me for a few days.... more

DOCTOR’S NOTE: Today’s column involves discussion of abusive relationships.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So I (f) have had an on-off relationship with my ex (m) for the past 2 years. Recently, he’s shown that he’s growing to be a better person, and I’ve been putting serious thought int... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m gonna apologize beforehand but it’s one of those “I have this friend…” questions.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a long time follower! Let’s get down to business, ‘cuz this is gonna be a wild ride.... more