DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently graduated and entered the workforce, and while I feel grateful to have landed a full-time position in marketing, I’m starting to feel a bit lost. The job itself is fine. I have a supportive team and decent pay, and I get to use some of the skills I learned in school; still, something feels off. I don’t feel fulfilled. I keep wondering if I chose this field just because it felt safe or convenient at the time, not because it’s what I truly want to do.
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Now that I’m a few months in, I’m thinking about pivoting, but into what? I’ve explored different industries and roles online, listened to podcasts, even tried informational interviews, but nothing is really clicking. It’s hard not to compare myself to peers who seem to know exactly what they want and are charging full speed ahead while I’m stuck questioning everything. I worry that if I jump ship too soon or too often, I’ll look flaky or unfocused. I also worry that if I stay too long in a role that doesn’t inspire me, I’ll end up stuck in a career I never truly wanted. How do I figure out what direction to go in when I don’t even know what interests me yet? Is this kind of uncertainty normal in the early stages of a career? -- Just Getting Started
DEAR JUST GETTING STARTED: Be patient. One mistake that many people make as they begin their careers is to jump ship too soon. Give yourself a chance to learn as much as you can on this job. Soak it all in. Meet as many people as you can as you explore other potential areas of interest. Stop comparing yourself to others and just learn. Many people have multiple pivots along their career journeys. You don’t have to stay in one role for life, but give yourself a chance to gain knowledge and skills -- and a good reference -- before leaving.