Are you talking with your children about money as often as once a week or more? That seems to be a new trend, according to the “13th Annual Parents, Kids and Money Survey” released last week by T. Rowe Price (tinyurl.com/9xj2k4v4). Close to 50% of parents surveyed had money conversations with their children once a week or more, up from 22% in 2020.

The survey, which focused on how the pandemic impacted the financial well-being of families, asked questions of both parents and their children.

Being an advocate of financial literacy for all age levels, I find this to be a promising trend. After all, few schools offer financial programs.

As a 2020 “Survey of the States” by the Council for Economic Education (tinyurl.com/yj88bhrx) reported, only 21 states required high school students to take a course in personal finance, and just 25 states required high school students to take a course in economics. That’s an improvement over years past, but hardly enough.

Financial experts who study financial literacy agree that parents (and grandparents) have an impact.

“Our research shows that kids who have had frequent money conversations with their parents are better positioned for financial responsibility in adulthood,” said Jerome Clark, strategic program manager in T. Rowe Price’s Multi-Asset Division.

That’s enough of a reason to seriously consider initiating talks about finances with children of all ages. However, based on decades of experience working with families, I wouldn’t recommend money discussions at mealtime.

In the survey of more than 2,000 parents and their 8- to 14-year-olds, it turned out that COVID-19 was a factor in driving the frequency of conversations about money -- and the subject matter.

The pandemic impacted most of those surveyed (80%), mostly in a negative way (67%). For example, about one out of three families were saving less for retirement, and 35% were dipping into retirement savings to pay for living expenses. Almost one of three families decreased savings for college, and 35% were saving less for other goals. One of two (57%) families reported they had credit card debt, up from 43% in 2020.

Meanwhile, you can assume that the kids are observing their parents and learning. What are they picking up?

In my personal experience of working with families, I can share that kids are sponges. They can be learning lessons about credit or household finances. Or those lessons can be about how to solve money problems. Or both.

From my perspective, it is important for parents to keep in mind that children also pick up on their parents’ emotional state. One out of two kids reported that their parents were more stressed. Some kids had their allowances reduced.

As Clark noted, “Kids often pick up on unspoken cues, and stressful situations can be turned into powerful teaching tools.”

The important thing in this case is to deliberately teach these monetary lessons rather than run the risk of children picking up on financial stress and coming to their own conclusions.

To help with the dialogue, check out T. Rowe Price’s “Money Confident Kids” website (tinyurl.com/esxrz4y5), which features a number of learning tools, including a section on conversation starters. Also see the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau’s “Money as You Grow” page (tinyurl.com/66w9ntvk), and the “Youth & Money” section (tinyurl.com/cdjxvc25) on the website of the American Bankers Association.

It’s important to be involved in helping your children (and grandchildren) learn about financial literacy and handling money, and hopefully guide them toward sound financial habits that will last them a lifetime.

Julie Jason, JD, LLM, a personal money manager (Jackson, Grant Investment Advisers Inc. of Stamford, Connecticut) and award-winning author, welcomes your questions/comments (readers@juliejason.com). Please visit www.juliejason.com.

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How do you make decisions? Tools can be very helpful for simple situations -- and potentially less useful for more complex cases when more data has to be considered, as in the case of someone transitioning into retirement.

Consider this situation: Imagine you are a single person, age 60, with $250,000 of retirement savings, earning $55,000 a year and planning to retire in two years.

Say you were asked to focus on three key retirement issues: 1) Age at which you would claim Social Security from ages 62-70; 2) A general withdrawal progression (increasing, flat or decreasing) from retirement savings and whether you would like to take extra withdrawals from your retirement savings prior to claiming Social Security; and 3) Whether to purchase an annuity.

This was the case study presented to 400 participants recently by a team at UCLA and Cornell University. When the participants were divided into two groups and used a custom-built financial decision tool, the results differed based on how they considered the elements.

Group one, or the “separate condition,” assessed each of the three retirement issues one at a time as if each was an isolated decision. Each decision was independent of the others. For example, when to start Social Security was isolated from retirement savings withdrawal strategies and annuities. Participants saw the results of only one decision at a time.

As a result, when the participants selected a plan for withdrawals from retirement savings, they only saw the age when that money would run out, but nothing about the cumulative effect related to Social Security or an annuity.

Group two, or the “aggregated condition,” was permitted to take in all three aspects in a larger, big-picture context. For example, they were given the effect on the 60-year-old’s annual income from all sources. And, they saw the probability of having sufficient resources at the age of 85.

Intuitively, the second group had more data to deliver more holistic advice. That makes sense in the practical world of investment management that I can attest to. One would say that the bigger-picture approach wins probably in all cases, unless, of course, a single issue is all that needs to be addressed (for example, in this case study, the individual does not have a retirement plan or enough in savings to buy an annuity). That person can use a tool to isolate the Social Security timing question. In this case, the SSA’s calculator at tinyurl.com/b2wma32c can be very useful indeed.

With a set of tools that can take in a bigger picture for a more complex financial situation, one can better evaluate the financial trade-offs of each isolated decision point, as the study concluded. The study, “Broad Framing in Retirement Income Decision Making,” can be found at tinyurl.com/p2p8rjza.

Effective tools can be an important part of planning for (and living in) retirement. If you have any favorite online tools, email me at readers@juliejason.com and your suggestions may be discussed in a future column.

On another note, I invite you to attend a virtual talk I’m giving at the Greenwich Library, “Giving to the Next Generation,” on Wednesday, May 5, at 1:00 p.m. EDT. To register, go to tinyurl.com/y29wzrwv or email Yang Wang at ywang@greenwichlibrary.org.

If you are interested in 401(k) investing, I will be giving a series of short virtual talks on “How to Be a 401(k) Champion®.” For the schedule, see www.juliejason.com/events.

Julie Jason, JD, LLM, a personal money manager (Jackson, Grant Investment Advisers Inc. of Stamford, Connecticut) and award-winning author, welcomes your questions/comments (readers@juliejason.com). Please visit www.juliejason.com.

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Even though tax day was delayed this year to May 17 from April 15, I’m guessing you may be thinking about your tax return, or about proposed changes to the tax laws. So, I thought I’d share a few thoughts from influencers to put a few things into perspective. You may recognize some of these luminaries:

“The hardest thing in the world to understand is the income tax.” -- Albert Einstein, physicist

“Like mothers, taxes are often misunderstood, but seldom forgotten.” -- Lord Bramwell, 19th-century English jurist

“I am proud to be paying taxes in the United States. The only thing is -- I could be just as proud for half the money.” -- Arthur Godfrey, entertainer

“The power of taxing people and their property is essential to the very existence of government.” -- James Madison, U.S. president

“To tax and to please, no more than to love and to be wise, is not given to men.” -- Edmund Burke, 18th-century Irish political philosopher and British statesman

“People who complain about taxes can be divided into two classes: men and women.” -- Unknown

“Taxes are what we pay for civilized society.” -- Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., U.S. Supreme Court justice

“No government can exist without taxation. This money must necessarily be levied on the people; and the grand art consists of levying so as not to oppress.” -- Frederick the Great, 18th-century Prussian king

“The best measure of a man’s honesty isn’t his income tax return. It’s the zero adjust on his bathroom scale.” -- Arthur C. Clarke, author

A tax loophole is “something that benefits the other guy. If it benefits you, it is tax reform.” -- Russell B. Long, U.S. senator

“Few of us ever test our powers of deduction, except when filling out an income tax form.” -- Laurence J. Peter, author

“Taxation with representation ain’t so hot either.” -- Gerald Barzan, humorist

“Where there is an income tax, the just man will pay more and the unjust less on the same amount of income.” -- Plato

“Income tax has made more liars out of the American people than golf.” -- Will Rogers, humorist

These quotes are posted on the IRS website at tinyurl.com/b5vcbv3f. If you have never visited the site, let me encourage you to do so.

You’ll also want to check out the IRSvideos YouTube page at tinyurl.com/b5pfj3d6, where you will find helpful informational videos on just about any tax topic you may want to learn about, including videos in Spanish.

Here are a few that I recommend:

If you have not received your Economic Impact Payment, watch the video that helps you sign up for an IRS account online called “IRS Economic Impact Payments on Your Tax Account” at tinyurl.com/9xjdarr4.

For a basic grounding in tax filings, see “Help for Taxpayers” at tinyurl.com/t59tcprv.

If you need help on withholding, see “How to Use the IRS Withholding Estimator for Paycheck Checkup” at tinyurl.com/2cctus3d.

If you’ve been the victim of identity theft, watch “Get an Identity Protection PIN” (to keep someone else from using your Social Security number to file a tax return) at tinyurl.com/3szb5tck.

If you are due a tax refund, see “When Will I Get My Refund?” (tinyurl.com/9jhxyjec) and “Refund: Claim It or Lose It” (tinyurl.com/cx6cdyx4).

And, finally, if you are interested in working for the IRS, watch “Revenue Agent” at tinyurl.com/3uxd6eez, as well as “What Does A Special Agent Do?” at tinyurl.com/yjjv65ur and “Your Abilities Work at the IRS” at tinyurl.com/2svzcxy2.

Julie Jason, JD, LLM, a personal money manager (Jackson, Grant Investment Advisers Inc. of Stamford, Connecticut) and award-winning author, welcomes your questions/comments (readers@juliejason.com). Please visit www.juliejason.com.

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